Page 1 of 2

Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 10:38 am
by LadyAngler
Due to the overall lame atmosphere, I pose a question...



Dave and I were having a rather interesting discussion of who "wears the pants" between us. It was interesting to hear how the "power distribution" is viewed.



Which leads me to ask... Who wears the pants in your marriage/ relationship? Do you, does the wife... or are you like us, Image and the wife does, but makes you believe you do?

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 10:44 am
by Rafe Hollister
When the kids are in bed, neither one of us is wearing pants.

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 10:47 am
by Rafe Hollister
In all seriousness, when we have a decision to make, we discuss it and in the end, I make the last call. Both points of view are considered and usually, she & I see things pretty much the same way. I would never do anything that affects our marriage, kids, or home life without her input. Anything regarding the business is just the opposite. She requests my opinion and considers it before making the final call.

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 10:49 am
by CuppedAndCommitted
I have lived under the blissful false assumption that I were the pants now for 11 years. Make no mistake, I am not the policy maker in our household. I am merely the policy enforcer. I've seen the bosses job, and I don't want it. Image

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 11:18 am
by BornBad
Wife lets me have last call, unless she does not agree.



I like to think it is a 50/50 deal with household maintenance and recreational decision making. When we do come to a disagreement, the one that wants to argue the most for it usually wins.

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 11:32 am
by Warmouth
Image Like you're really fooling anyone Lady. Image

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 11:36 am
by LadyAngler
I am foolin' you! Image

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 11:41 am
by fishin
We are pretty much a 50/50 split though I usually get to make the final decision so there is someone to blame. Like C&C though she is more the household and kid policy maker and I am merely the bad guy AKA enforcer of said rules.

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 1:01 pm
by Triton X2
I am surely the head of my household, but my wife is the neck that turns the head.... Image Image



I always have the last word in all disagreements. It is always 'yes dear', or 'no dear', or 'whatever you want dear'. Image Image

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 3:39 pm
by Great White Hunter
I'm the boss in my household, period.

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 8:35 pm
by Swamp_Fox
I wear the pants in my family.

Sorry, I have to get off the computer. The laundry needs done.

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 27th, 2005, 10:08 pm
by Anonymous Coward
Snowflake said:
I'm the boss in my household, period.

You're married to another man, apparently. You love taking it up the pooper, don't you "Snowflake". Image Image

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 28th, 2005, 9:27 am
by LadyAngler
Swamp_Fox said:
I wear the pants in my family.

Sorry, I have to get off the computer. The laundry needs done.

Image

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 28th, 2005, 10:36 am
by Great White Hunter
Anonymous - Why don't you register a user name, then we'll talk. I like to know the name of the person before I destroy them with by unbelievably sharp wit.

Re: Who wears the pants?

Posted: September 28th, 2005, 10:44 am
by Rafe Hollister
If you can't tell that it's MOCraig, you're more of a moron than I initially thought.